Dear Dr. Dick, his profile says he's negative...

Dear Dr Dick,

Like so many other gay and bisexual men in Seattle I spend a great deal of time online looking for hookups. It seems that is where all the HOT guys hang out. When I hookup with guys from websites I practice safe sex. However recently I met two guys online that I am considering barebacking with. That's cool if all parties involved are HIV negative right? Both of guys have posted the following statement in their online profiles: "HIV NEG as of November 20, 2008." [I'm guessing that you meant 2008??]

So here my question: is it safe to bareback with them?
Hooked on the Man Hunt

Dear Hooked on the Man Hunt,

Thank you for your question!

The short answer is, no, barebacking (intentional unprotected anal sex) is a very risky sexual practice. Barebacking can easily transmit HIV, along with several other sexually transmitted infections. These potential partners say they are HIV-negative but they were negative as of a year ago, so consider these facts:

In a recent large study of gay/bi men, on average about 2% became infected each year; but among those guys who engaged in the highest risk behavior the rates of new infection reach levels as high as 8% yearly. Other studies have shown that recently HIV-infected guys are the most infectious, because they have very high levels of virus in their blood and semen in the first few months after being infected, before their bodies have brought the infection under some control. So, if you happen to encounter a guy who enjoys high risk behaviors, there could be an 8% chance that he's acquired HIV in the past year, and he may be not just pretty but also pretty infectious.

Knowing your own and your partner's HIV status is an important part of maintaining one's overall health. However, because one advertises their year-old HIV status in an online profile or in person does not necessarily mean it is accurate and frankly it's a big risk to take for HIV, the worst of all sexually transmitted diseases.

Additionally, someone is HIV negative can have another sexually transmitted infection (STI) present. Anal and/or oral sex without condoms can still spread infections such as syphilis and gonorrhea.

Be sure to talk more about this with your partners and even your doctor to settle on a decision that works best for all parties.

Best,

Dr. Dick